What to Pack, What to Ditch: Real Advice From a VA + Mom

College Ready
Written By Stephanie Moore


Let’s be honest: sending your kid to college is basically like planning a cross-country move… but with more emotions and fewer packing cubes. As a professional organizer and a mom, I’ve seen both sides of the packing chaos—and I’ve got thoughts.

Whether your kid is already mentally moved into their dorm or you’re still googling “do they allow toasters,” here’s a guide to help you pack smart, skip the clutter, and avoid last-minute breakdowns (yours or theirs).


✅ What to Pack (The Essentials That Actually Get Used)

1. Bed + Bath Basics

  • Twin XL sheets (yes, the weird size)

  • Mattress topper = instant dorm luxury

  • Towels, shower caddy, and flip flops (trust me)

2. Laundry & Cleaning

  • Pop-up hamper

  • Detergent pods

  • Clorox wipes (they won’t use them, but you will when you visit)

3. Tech & Desk Gear

  • Power strip with surge protector

  • Phone charger + laptop charger (bring extras!)

  • A small desk lamp or clip-on light

4. Personal & Comfort Items

  • Favorite mug, blanket, or stuffy (no shame)

  • Family photo or something from home

  • A small toolkit (with scissors + tape—yes, really)

❌ What to Ditch (AKA What Comes Home Unused)

1. Too Many Clothes
They will live in 3 sweatshirts and joggers. Pack for the season and let them swap at break.

2. Full Kitchen Setups
Unless they’re in an apartment, skip the pots and pans. A microwave, mug, and a mini fridge go a long way.

3. Office Supplies Overload
They don’t need 15 highlighters, a stapler, and a filing system. This isn’t the IRS.

4. Bulk Storage Bins
Stackable? Cool. Giant tubs they never open? Not so much.

📦 Want My Full Packing List?

Grab my free College Ready Binder with packing lists, digital doc setup, and a few sanity-saving checklists.

👉 Link Here

VA Tip: Create a Shared Digital Folder

Use Google Drive or Dropbox to set up a shared folder with your student before they leave.
Include:

  • Insurance cards

  • Vaccination records

  • Emergency contacts

  • Power of Attorney forms (especially if they’re 18+!)

  • Copies of student ID, license, etc.

Bonus: You’ll look like a genius when they lose something 2 months in.

Real Talk From a Mom

You’ll overpack. You’ll cry. You’ll forget something. It’s fine. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s helping them feel prepared and supported (and maybe leaving with your heart only half-shattered).

Stephanie Moore
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